I have very low self-esteem. I am pretty sure, though, that I’m a great person because that’s what people keep telling me. I can recognize that I have a warped self-view because I don’t believe I am beautiful, but everyone tells me that I am. I really am quite good at life, but I get […]

Yes, you can change someone. Seems I disagree with most people. A refreshing change where most people believe it is morally wrong to want to get someone to be a better person. Can you get an arrogant person to change? Yes, you can change people. Yep, I said it. You can change people. And people […]

It is counter-intuitive for some to think that being with a feeling (feeling it) makes it easier to change, or work with.  And rightly so.  Many people that don’t have a lot of experience sitting with their own feelings frequently find themselves completely triggered by them, or numb to them- in which case they work […]

Trust is a feeling. Interesting that it is mentioned last as the thing to do. Meaning you can change what you feel like doing. Another way to put is what professional athletes do. It is called warming up. Then you feel like doing something bigger. The warm up is preceded by your vision, where you […]

Seeking productivity? Here is a classic. Yep, everyday wake up and do the most important thing first not the most pressing. It is tempting to get sucked into a world of what is urgent and pressing. Panic drives people to action (maybe even paralysis if too much). Get out in front of your life by […]

What is more important to success: intelligence or reliability? Of course, both are necessary but if you could only have one in yourself or a partner, which would you take?   Intelligence is more important than reliability because if nothing was leading all the reliability in the world would have no place to go. Sounds […]

Which part of mindset do you really want to learn about? Focusing on the skills teaching of personal development produces direct income. If you teach sales skills then someone can earn money by doing sales. The real problem is in healing. What do you do if someone lacks the motivation, interest, or has blocks around […]

So why should we ever give up or quit? I think everyone should quit smoking. Or more specifically, always quit the moment you realize you are not going to get what you truly want.   For example we often see the example that people who pursue money and power do not get love. The love […]

When do you keep at it and when do you shift gears? This is how long to keep at it before you start wasting your time: If you know it is going to work then stay at it until it does. If you don’t know if it is going to work then what are wasting […]

Why do you work so hard? By asking the question, “Why am I such a hard worker?” your mind begins to answer it. Just to ask the question is to lose because your mind starts telling you all the reasons why you are a hard worker. This will bring understanding about how you work but […]