“If you set your goals ridiculously high and it’s a failure, you will fail above everyone else’s success.” – James Cameron Yes, and you will also beat yourself up for never achieving it. In contrast, if you do not have incredible vision (ridiculously high goals) then you can also fall too easily into just comforting […]

Peak performance (or motivation) is a hot topic these days. People often contact me for motivation which is fascinating because I wonder how they were able to contact me with no motivation. If you know you need to do something then you are realizing you are already motivated. Do what you really want to in […]

Apparently the 50% divorce rate has been debunked a couple of times. It was done here recently. http://www.randalolson.com/2014/10/10/what-makes-for-a-stable-marriage/ Fascinating that college degreed spouses who have managed to keep it together for at least ten years only have a 25% divorce rate. Almost half the national average. Yep, a women’s education is vital to keeping the […]

Will power is a wonderful short term use of the ego. Ever notice how ego maniacs tend to run out of steam? It is not just because of the enormous amount of energy it takes to sustain sheer force of will. It is also because will power is only designed to be used short term. […]

Recently reading about how important it is to be proactive. To come up with solutions to problems instead of just pointing out what is wrong with everything. I began to wonder if maybe the solution is too hard and this is what I came up with.   “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and […]

You only have 24 hours (3 months, 1 year, whatever) to live. You have been diagnosed with a terminal disease (probably cancer of some kind). What do you do with the rest of your life? I always see this question asked as part of some personal development, time management, priority setting workshop only it never […]

I recently heard someone bragging because the three people he screwed over today was ok because according to karma they had it coming. Although my darker sense of humor kicked in I was also reminded of the great missing link in Buddhism. Which is – after 30,000 volumes of writing and everything else Buddha said, […]

Famous marketer Dan Kennedy in his Wealth Attraction Seminar, mentions that Napolian Hill actually spent a lot of his life broke – even after the success of “Think and Grow Rich”. He was still broke after that huge success! Apparently working for W. Clement Stone as a sales trainer turned that around. Interesting to note […]

Is there one path or many paths? And does a person have to want to change before they can get help? Often a hotly debated topic is mostly centers around awareness and what works.   If you don’t have willingness or belief (which most people don’t) then we rely on marketing and sales to get […]

They say getting started is the hardest part. What are your best tips to start taking action? Do what you really want to in a way that is comfortable. Interesting, invigorating, fascinating, supportive, relaxing, enjoyable all equal comfortable. I simply can’t stress this enough. Work sucks. Turn work into play by doing what you really […]